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How amazing would it be to live life offering every “no” without apology and every “yes” without being ashamed? Learn that it really isn’t about anyone else, it’s about tuning in and taking care of you, and then you can relate with ease and joy with others, wherever they are at.

Come join us in Victoria as two top teachers in the fields of sexuality, vulnerability, and self-acceptance weave their diverse perspectives into a day long intensive

Are you ready to take an intensive based on FEARLESS RELATING with two of the most dynamic relationship geeks on the planet today? Come expose yourself to the next generation of relating! This workshop will blow your mind and open your heart with vulnerability diva Monique Darling, and Peter Petersen, professional mover and self care role model.

Come and benefit from the blending of their unique experiences, approaches, and insights regarding skillful communication. They will help you get to your “no” without fear and uncover your “yes,” releasing your armor and becoming more vulnerable. Discover an inner strength you did not know you have and the ability to laugh in the face of your greatest fears.

So much of the fear and hesitation in life comes not from the self, but from fretting about what others may think, what they will say, or whom they might share it with afterwards. This can rob you of being able to enjoy the moment. Another set of fears come from passed-down beliefs that we accept without questioning them.

What if you could make decisions and follow your heart…follow your body and your desires without worrying about what others thought? What if you were fearless in relating – first, to yourself and then, to others?

Come join us for a unique day of exploration around such topics as:

  • How do we establish boundaries and create safe space for ourselves to explore with others?
  • Shifting paradigms from blame, shame, guilt & judgement, to love, acceptance, understanding and presence.
  • Factors that promote or inhibit intimacy:
  • The power of no and boundary (understand why your “no” says more about you than your “yes”)


In this workshop you will learn, play, and practice

  • To ask for what you want, skillfully, without attachment to the response.
  • To honor, respect, and be grateful for the answer “no”, and still be hopeful for the answer “yes”.
  • To be honest and vulnerable about your wants and desires without shame, without deflection, without armor.
  • To hold space for someone who has not yet learned these skills.
  • To own your fears, instead of them owning you.
  • To not be afraid to be the one who loves you the most
  • To learn to be even more vulnerable when you want to isolate or close down.
  • Release shame and haunting memories
  • Modalities of communication: verbal and non verbal

When you understand who you truly are, the need to compare yourself to another, envy, the urge to impress, to BE different than you are all dissolve. In the beauty, wonder, and awe in discovering how magnificent “your” puzzle pieces fit together, the ever changing infinite ways YOU shift, dance, together, each one so unique, so extraordinary. It could take an entire lifetime to only just begin to discover. Yet so often we abandon the quest of self discovery, to follow another, or to invest in relationships, doing what we have been told is the “right” way to be. The greatest freedom that we could ever express or imagine, is by simply giving ourselves permission to gently keep returning to us. We can transform the world by simply being 100% ourselves.

Come with an open heart and a willingness, a longing, to bring your stories into the light, so that they can stop you running away from your shadow.

All activities and exercises will be guided and are always optional. You can participate in the workshop solo, with a partner and in small groups. All participants are asked to practice with each other, or by oneself, in whatever manner supports you best. Many options will be offered to support each individual experience.

Set your sights on registering for this breakthrough intensive, and get a two for the price of one deal by paying only what it ordinarily costs to learn from just one of these facilitators.

This will be a very special class for us! This will be the first time where our workshop will be avaiable live streaming on the web. So even if you cannot be here in person, you can still join us and even participate in the workshop for 3 hours for only $30 USD.

To register for this live streaming event please RSVP here: http://stevenseva.com/online-event-next-level-relating-masterclass-with-monique-darling-peter-petersen/

Ticket Prices for in person are as follows: (In Canadain Dollars) at the door for the day event $129, (It is $102 for the first 3 people who sign up and normal presale is $117 for Saturday day only) . An early bird for both Saturday day and the evening puja is $132 and the normal price is $152. If you would like to come to both the Friday night event and Saturday day and evening events, which is the “Puja” it’s $172.

To RSVP please go here to reserve your ticket: http://stevenseva.com/monique-peter-21st-century-relating-master-class-victoria/


About Your Facilitators:

Monique Darling, workshop facilitator extraordinaire has led over 1,000 workshops in the past 5 years and is the author of Beyond Cuddle Party. She is the founder of Juicy Enlightenment an organization dedicated to empowering people who are questioning the assumptions of how their life should be and to offering tools for self expression that create trust, inner knowing and wisdom to enjoy the life they have. Monique has been featured on TLC and The Dr’s as well as various radio shows, podcasts and magazines across the USA. She specializes in helping others reclaim their power and natural sensuality by transmuting fear and repression into courage, self-love and freedom. Her primary purpose is helping folks bring out their vulnerability, energetic embodiment and fearless relating.She guides from a place of understanding and her natural exuberance is infectious! She is available for private sessions, experiential workshops and Cuddle Parties. Learn more about Monique by going to juicyenlightenment.com or track her whereabouts at whereintheworldismoniquedarling.com

Peter Petersen has been teaching for 14 years and has been a certified Sheng Zhen Qigong teacher for the last 12 years, where he has been teaching in health clubs, hospitals, retirement villas, and several different wellness/spa resorts in Mexico and the United States, such as Rancho La Puerta, Mayacamas Ranch, and Present Moment Retreat. Peter is also a personal wellness coach. This Qigong practice helps people ground themselves into their “now” to increase their present moment awareness of their behaviors, and find solutions to problematic habits such as: eating, moving, negative thinking, and sleeping. The result of this tool box of healthy information is that clients become their own health advocate and regain a sense of stability, peace, and well-being into their everyday lives.

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